Relationship with Distance

What comes to your mind when I say a mile or a km. May be a distance you need to cover by road, rail or any other transport. Ever wondered what it takes to cover a distance between two people? How do we measure this distance? I do not have a
rational to measure this, but I know a method to decrease this. Do not have any wrong impression that I am going to share some magical spells to get close in relationships. In fact, I am going to talk of relations with distance and you can figure out the hidden magical spells, if want to say that.

They say if you loose contact you tend to see the relationship fading. I argue, doesn't it mean that the very existence of the relationship was so shallow that a temporary loss of contact wiped it off. Maintaining contacts, understanding each other, being there for one another is very essential. What is more essential, is to maintain and try to come up with ideas to cut down the problems creating those distances. Of course, we may not have solutions to every problem but we can come up with a mid way path to counter these distances and the troubles arising from them. I am not saying you need to stick around to make something happen. Instead you should do every bit for the relationship that matters for you. Every other thing will start
falling in line there after.

Being too optimistic. Yes, I see lots of challenges creeping in while we try to go ahead with this idea of mine. So before you go ahead let us discuss those road blocks, after all we are trying to cover a distance. One tends to be disehearted and at times may feel the snarling pinch of the distance. You may feel drifted apart and look for support and some one around. You may like to find people who are there to be with you. That is not inhuman and is totally accepted. The million dollar question is how do you look at this new or temporary support grooming up. Do we ever anticipate what might happen once the new support throws a dark side to us. What if this new support also vanishes? Would we start looking for another support? If that would be the case I feel we might end up in a merry-go-round. Does n't this suggest it is more advisable to try and support your existing relations rather than looking for temporary supports.

Having said that, let us look at the roads to relationship. The trust and the sense of being for one another besides having the light of charm and passion for each other continues to shorten the long distance in relations. As long as the spark of being together continues to be there I don't see any harm in the actions you might take to overcome the road blocks. It has been always true that we need to stand for each other, but what is more important is we need to learn how to sacrifice for each
other. We not only need to appreciate each other but we also need to become a picture of appreciation for each other. As long as we continue to do this I don't see any kind of a distance playing a role in a relationship.